You’re feeling like a loser because you are comparing yourself to standards that you will not satisfy
What I mean to say is society has created these bullshit standards for you to accomplish and they do not align with your goals, you will likely never compare yourself with the societal standard and be satisfied as a result
Think of who you want to be in the future and only have your goals and aspirations in mind
I play guitar and I can for sure tell you that within a year of practice you will be able to play a lot of pop guitar songs with ease, in fact that could be a goal to set and help you clear your mindset “I will start learning guitar and in one year I will aim to be able to play easy pop songs I like”
Notice that this goal is not related to societal standards, which extends to projections of you think people think of you
it was yooo hoo killed me !