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  • Phrasing is definitely important. I see many posts where it seems more like someone is looking for validation rather than advice. When those people don’t get the responses they want to hear, they get defensive and double down.

    Sometimes people just have shitty views with no intent to reflect on their views and get dog piled on. I personally have no problem with this. I think much of the world has gotten to soft of some demographics. For example, as an American (I only say this because it’s becoming more prevalent, but it should be universal), I think anyone that comes out supporting white supremacy and Nazi ideals shouldn’t get the benefit of understanding. They should be lambasted and ridiculed for being terrible people. If the masses quit giving these people credence, maybe they’d just go back into being closeted bigots instead of making everyone else miserable.



  • I’ve deleted posts when I responded to the wrong person, and one time I can think of where I completely missed the mark, but I deleted it within seconds of posting. Past that, I’ll accept what other readers decide. I think there are definitely times where a post has been misunderstood due to bad phrasing, but I don’t ride or die on how a post does. Sometimes when something does bad, I’ll try to have some introspection on why, and if it’s because my views are bad or unpopular, I’ll give it some thought. It’s not often that my views are particularly wrong, but like I mentioned, I just articulated them poorly. Sometimes it is just a bad take, I eat crow, and I try to use that as a learning experience and move on.

    I’ve never deleted anything out of shame because my view was unpopular.











  • I was a sys admin at one company for just under 10 years. I left to another company to become a software developer, but ended up as a Servicenow admin for 2 years. Now I’ve a full stack dev. It’s been tough sledding since I came into this role with only a single year of coding in college some scripting skills I learned in my previous system admin job, and some sell learning using free online resources. I’m still way off from where I want to be skill wise, but I’m good enough that I can do most of my work with minimal assistance. I do feel inadequate a lot of the time because I’m surrounded by people with experience, but I’m pretty intelligent, can learn concept quickly, and I put in the work to get better. Being on a supportive team has been the best thing for me. All said, I’ve had the best growth in my career since I moved to my dev role compared to the past 12+ years, both financially and in skills.

    Coming from someone who should have left his system admin job 5+ years before I did, I encourage you to take any opportunities you can get to not be miserable in your work life. I took a pay cut to move companies, and it was worth every penny, especially since I’m making more now than before with much better benefits. If I stay with my company for the rest of my career, I can work for the next ~18 years and retire before 60 thanks to offered benefits.