To support what others have said: even precum can get you pregnant.
It’s not that “pull out is a tad unreliable” - it is horrible and the failure quota is ridiculously high. And that’s only pregnancy, not even considering the whole disease fun you’re signing up for. With a bit of bad luck that’s a lifetime of annoying medication, no a few weeks.
This means from my point of fire in order of urgency:
A) First of all: stranger, feel loved 🤗 I find it awesome that you have he courage to ask this question!
B) get plan B. It’ll suck if you’re reacting but that’s only a week or two.
C) Review your sexual habits: if you’re into spontaneous drunk sex figure out a reliable protection that you don’t have to think too much about. If it’s with strangers there’s no way around a condom in addition if you don’t want to take something for your hepathitis or HIV for the rest of your life. If it’s people you know and trust then something “just” against pregnancy is enough. If it’s a mix of both I suggest getting a baseline protection that you don’t have to think about in the heat of the moment and condoms as preventative plan B for the cases where you’re not too sure.
It sounds like a cliche but it’s true: The more the dude resists protection the more you’ll need it. After all it will be you who’ll be alone with the consequences. You’re worth more than a few fun moments for some dick!
No.
The password is actually physically written up on paper in a huge stack without reference or context in a “if something happens” folder for my wife.
I also manage my 2FA in that safe which counters the idea of the second factor as defined by the companies but my safe itself is a second factor.
Database loss is impossible for me because of a misconception in your description: basically by definition, backups can’t be “overwritten” with old data . A backup is write-once. Everything else is just a sparkly copy.
I’m serious: change your backup strategy please! Incrementell backups don’t use that mich more space and actually back up a status of what you had no matter what you do after or why your local data is broken.
“I overwrote my stuff” should never destroy a backup IMO.