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Cake day: March 10th, 2026

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  • Option 1: Become a full on loser so you no longer have to feel ‘like’ a loser…

    Option 2: Acknowledge that you’ve already proven that you’re not a loser. Do your music because you find it is something that you enjoy and gives you something you crave, not because you need to be good enough to do concerts and get somebody’s praise. Set your own goals and define your own victory conditions. It sounds like you have some unhappiness now and maybe even a touch of depression and you don’t like it. Give yourself permission to try new things without expectation and grace to change again if it doesn’t float your boat. You know you don’t like you have, so you really don’t have anything to lose. Don’t let anyone else ever define your identity. Best wishes.