Cocaine.

I don’t see how one more shitty frontend for lemmy would ruin anything. Just add it to the pile.

There’s also a lot of decent people over here.

Exactly, I’m also just hanging around the nazi bar for the free buffet!

Nope. Easiest solution would be to move your account to an instance that doesn’t federate with lemmy.ml in the first place.

Obviously depends on the country, but in most develop countries the law is reasonable enough that it’s a useful shorthand for what is ok in day-to-day situations.

As long as it’s done responsibly and legally I have no issues with it.

Nothing, that way I can listen to my own stuff while I wait.

Who ever came back to check and see must have gotten a fever of a hundred and three!

You don’t.

No, it’s not anything like that. My point was exactly the opposite: If you’re just a virgin that can’t get laid but you deal with it like a normal human being, you’re not an incel. Just a virgin and there is nothing wrong with that.

It’s would be more like calling every one has every played a game a gamer. Technically true, but utterly useless as term.

If you only want to use the word in the narrow literal sense, fine.

I don’t think that’s very useful. We don’t really need a special word for a virgin that can’t get laid. But we do need one that describes when people start blaming all women and form a misogynistic mindset around it. That’s how I choose to understand and use the term.

Can you be more specific about which part you think is wrong?

An incel (/ˈɪnsɛl/ ⓘ IN-sel; an abbreviation of “involuntary celibate”[1] or “involuntarily celibate”[2]), is a member of an online subculture of mostly heterosexual men […]

Sounds like a community to me.

Ich hoffe die youtube “do not recommend” liste hat kein Limit …

If only there was some kind of news article that could answer these questions.

Stopping AI from doing all the thinking for us.

Oh yeah, I don’t doubt that at all!

Seems more like masturbation/porn addiction as there is no sex involved, by definition.

Can virgins be sex addicts? Feels like getting addicted to a drug you never took :D

When I don’t, I feel kinda uncomfortable and I have to do it.

As long as you can control it enough so you don’t suddenly wank off in a public or an otherwise inappropriate setting, it should be fine. If it’s an issue, maybe consider getting a therapist.