My 30 seconds just isn’t going to cut it.
That’s why you have a mouth and hands, potentially even getting your thigh in there.
Honestly, the penis in the vagina is sometimes the least exciting part about sex with that arrangement of genitals.
Honestly, the penis in the vagina is sometimes the least exciting part about sex with that arrangement of genitals.
The same is true the other way round too. Which makes it all the more frustrating that a lot of women think their whole contribution to sex is to lay there and provide a vagina.
Their comment wasn’t gendered at all. Yours, however, went straight to being divisive and attacking women…
Edit: Lots of downvotes and no replies. Someone please tell me what I said you disagree with
Yes, the first comment was gendered.
It replied to a man telling him that he should be doing stuff apart from PIV.
Of course, if you ignore the context, you can interpret it differently. But ignoring context invalidates any conversation in general.
My comment was not gendered.
You’re just a transphobe.
These men with their soft feelings can’t handle sex that is on equal footing.
I’ve topped more men in my life than these men have fucked women. I know what I’m talking about and it upsets them hahaha
Hey now, don’t generalize about men or you’re doing the same thing that rude dude did lol
Speaking as a man, it’s not soft feelings leading to this, but deep insecurities, often totally subconscious
Fair enough, I missed a word in the first sentence: “These** men”
He took great offense to idea of sex being more than a penis being inserted into a vagina. It says much more about him than anything else I’ve said here.
What a disgusting comment to make to me. That’s not the inverse of my comment at all.
Have you tried making the sex better for them by chance? You’re really telling on yourself here.
Not for nothing, but the tendency for people who get along purely by being conventionally attractive to starfish isn’t like, a secret. Lack of effort isn’t really a gendered thing.
My comment wasn’t talking about people who exhibit a lack of effort with sex.
There’s a lot that goes into why a person may starfish during sex and, maybe surprisingly to you, a lot of it is rooted in lack of sexual education and/or sexual abuse.
a lot of it is rooted in lack of sexual education
True. And who’s job is it to educate a grown woman on sex? Are you so sexist that you think women can’t be responsible for educating themselves?
You’re literally talking to a woman who puts in effort with sex. Enough to know there’s a lot more ways to try to please someone than shoving your dick inside and calling it a day.
You’re certainly not qualified to teach anyone about pleasing others in bed.
What a gross comment.
